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I’m so excited for this week’s video! I get asked all the time how to know which LLM to pick for your project (whether that’s at work or for your portfolio).

This week’s video breaks down the major players, their strengths and weaknesses, and a framework you can use to pick the best one for you.

Or, read the blog version here.

This week’s video on the mindset channel is for you.

I am sharing the exact mindset shift that unlocked literally everything I’ve accomplished in the last decade. It’s not a “hack” or protocol, just a simple way to think about hard work that makes you truly want to do your best over the long term.

Normally I’d just share the blog, but I think it’s worth sharing in full here this time.

We’re all familiar with the extremes of modern work culture.

On one end, there’s “toxic productivity” — people who can’t stop working because their identity and self-worth are completely tied to their output. They have very little else in their lives, so they fill the void with endless hustle.

On the other end, there are those who struggle to make any progress at all. They may be smart, capable, and ambitious, but they’re consistently dealing with procrastination, low motivation, or perfectionism that stalls their progress. They may even opt-out altogether under the guise of “self-care.”

I’ve discovered a third path. One that allows me to consistently pursue ambitious goals without burnout. One that has me waking up at 5am excited to work hard every single day, and going to bed exhausted in the best possible way from having truly done my best.

This isn’t some protocol or productivity hack. It’s a simple mindset shift that helps you rewire how you think about challenge, discomfort, and progress, so that you can achieve big dreams without relying on willpower to keep going.

But the truth is, this mindset is relatively recent for me.

During my teens and early twenties, I struggled. I was angsty, frustrated, and in an unhealthy relationship.

When I finally emerged from that difficult period, I experienced something I can only describe as profound. It changed the way I live my life literally overnight, and I believe it is why I am as successful and happy as I am today.

It was an overwhelming appreciation for normal, everyday life. The contrast between those darker years and my present reality created a perspective that fundamentally changed me.

In simple terms, I realized I have no excuse not to maximize my potential.

Let me explain. I was born in the right place, at the right time. I have access to limitless free education. My brain and body have always cooperated with me. I’ve been handed advantages that billions of people throughout history, and around the world today, never had.

It felt like choosing to coast would be disrespectful to those advantages.

Now to be clear, this is my personal philosophy. Some might argue the opposite position: “Our ancestors worked hard precisely so we could enjoy leisure. Refusing to relax dishonors their sacrifice.”

That’s valid, but I actually have another perspective.

Think about it this way. A hot tub feels good, sure. But a hot tub after hiking ten miles in freezing rain? That’s transcendent.

It’s the contrast that brings real satisfaction.

Instead of embracing the painful parts of life, we try to avoid them altogether. We play video games instead of going to the gym. We scroll our phones instead of working on our business proposal. We procrastinate and end up living this in-between life where nothing is truly painful, but nothing is truly satisfying, either.

Ultimately the question isn’t whether you’ll experience discomfort — it’s what kind of discomfort you choose.

I think of it as two kinds of pain:

There’s the pain of pushing yourself hard: exhaustion, temporary stress, the challenge of a changing identity.

Then there’s the pain of not pushing hard enough: regret, missed opportunities, and that nagging fear that you’re not living up to your potential.

The thing is, sometimes it’s hard to know what kind of pain you’re choosing in a given moment. A technique I like to use here is to imagine my own funeral.

I ask myself: How do I want to be remembered? What story do I want my life to tell? On my death bed, what would I regret not doing or trying?

There’s a quote by Erma Bombeck that captures this perfectly:

That’s my north star. I want to use everything I’ve been given. Every capability, every opportunity, every advantage.

Not just for myself, but for everyone I can help along the way.

For me, pushing my limits isn’t about ambition in the traditional sense. It’s not about accumulating more or proving something to others.

It’s my way of saying “thank you” for this extraordinary life I’ve been given.

I am choosing to express my gratitude through effort. Through growth. Through contribution. Through the full exploration of what I might become.

That’s what it means to be gratitude-driven.

THIS is how to sustain motivation over the long term. By connecting deeply with the meaning and purpose of your efforts. By realizing that your temporary pain and discomfort is in service of a larger goal. By seeing how lucky we are to even get to be working on goals like this.

And it doesn’t have to be a huge goal that gives your work meaning. There’s a story about JFK visiting NASA in the 1960s, and asking a janitor about what he was doing. The janitor responded, “Well Mr. President, I’m helping put a man on the moon.”

Regardless of how historically accurate this anecdote may or may not be, it illustrates a larger point: We can find meaning in our work if we just look for it. Maybe your work is being a caring friend or a good colleague. Maybe your work is going to the gym so you can be physically capable for your family and community. Maybe your work is to smile at everyone on the street to raise their spirits just a little bit.

No matter what your goals, if you can see the purpose to what you’re doing, and remember how amazing it is that we even have these opportunities, work begins to feel like a privilege, not a punishment. This is what fuels us to do our best over the long term.

So here’s what I want you to take away from this:

You don’t need to choose between burning out or giving up. What you need is a reason that’s bigger than willpower.

When you’re gratitude-driven, work stops feeling like something you have to do and starts feeling like something you get to do.

So I’ll leave you with this question: What would your life look like if you treated your potential not as a burden, but as a gift?

Not something you have to live up to out of fear or pressure, but something you get to explore out of gratitude?

Because you’ve been given everything you need. The question is: what are you going to do with it?

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